No, you can do stuff like go hiking together, go to the beach, go to an amusement park, go out to eat, cook dinner together, watch movies or videos, go to the mall, go to shows, go bowling, etc.
I think its awesome that you are saving yourself for that special someone. As for things other then sex… Well there are all kinds of things yawl could do. But if you come across some chic that keeps pressuring you to have sex. Then kick her to the curb.
You can do on dates the same things you could do with guy friends. Movies, dinner, museums, parks, walks, plays,-anything you can do with anyone else. And it is nothing wrong with saving your self. I believe it is quite honorable.
There are so many things to do that are not sex-related. Go to the movies, go for walks, make dinner together, go to museums, do sports types of things like work out together, biking together…go to the beach, go for romantic drives, spend time as a couple with friends and family members, volunteer your time as a couple to those in need, go to Church together, attend parties and social gatherings together, rent movies, write poetry together, sit and talk and get to know each other better, send cards and flowers for no reason, shop at the mall together.
No,a date shouldnt be about just sex unless your a married couple and you have children and never get time otherswise lol.But…….i think that is awesome espeically if you are unmarried.When and if you choose to be married you have your whole marriage to enjoy that with your partner.Good luck
Wow, really, a guy? Nice to hear that from a guy, but is it really hard to figure out things to do? Just because people have sex it doesn't mean that they don't do other things. What do you think other people do before they go home and do the deed? Go out to eat, watch a movie, go to a concert, go to the park…
Movies
Theater
Bowling
Skating
Miniature Golf
Bingo (don't laugh, sometimes it is real funny)
Museums
Fishing
Swimming
Sailing
Build a model ship together
Build a miniature scene from years past of some historic event
Fly model planes
Fly kites
Picnics
Idealistically speaking sex shold be part of process relationship and intimacy building…early on in dating i wouldnt put alot of pressure into getting into sex…
if you get sexually involved too quickly the emotional intimacy may not catch up quick enough when conflict developes(dont mean fighting conflict..i mean differences you each have that you bring to the table.. ..often which comes with the different stages relationships go through …then this leads to "where things go…either more committment or not.
Go out enjoy each others hobby s interest …try diferent foods,,,music…arts…movies…theatre..sports..outdoors activitieis…endless choices
You must be Christian. Its ok. You don't have to worry about being labeled. You don't see people putting stickers on apples with the word "apple" written on the stickers.
My suggestion is bring some blankets to a nearby park and lay down at night together. Just stare at the stars and talk about life and where you see yourselves in the future. And if she tries to bust sneaky one on you, just grab your blanket and run home.
You dont want to have sex before marriage. You assume that people that do have sex before marriage are labeled as fags. A typical Christian.
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August 3rd, 2011 at 12:30 am
No, you can do stuff like go hiking together, go to the beach, go to an amusement park, go out to eat, cook dinner together, watch movies or videos, go to the mall, go to shows, go bowling, etc.
August 6th, 2011 at 12:18 am
Just talk and enjoy each other's company…….just kiss and hold hands if you're attracted to them, but don't want to have sex….
August 9th, 2011 at 7:37 am
I think its awesome that you are saving yourself for that special someone. As for things other then sex… Well there are all kinds of things yawl could do. But if you come across some chic that keeps pressuring you to have sex. Then kick her to the curb.
August 11th, 2011 at 8:43 pm
You can do on dates the same things you could do with guy friends. Movies, dinner, museums, parks, walks, plays,-anything you can do with anyone else. And it is nothing wrong with saving your self. I believe it is quite honorable.
August 13th, 2011 at 5:54 pm
There are so many things to do that are not sex-related. Go to the movies, go for walks, make dinner together, go to museums, do sports types of things like work out together, biking together…go to the beach, go for romantic drives, spend time as a couple with friends and family members, volunteer your time as a couple to those in need, go to Church together, attend parties and social gatherings together, rent movies, write poetry together, sit and talk and get to know each other better, send cards and flowers for no reason, shop at the mall together.
August 16th, 2011 at 4:19 pm
No,a date shouldnt be about just sex unless your a married couple and you have children and never get time otherswise lol.But…….i think that is awesome espeically if you are unmarried.When and if you choose to be married you have your whole marriage to enjoy that with your partner.Good luck
August 19th, 2011 at 9:16 am
Movies
Dinner
Dancing
Concerts
Bowling
Go to the mall
August 19th, 2011 at 6:16 pm
uhhh….talk?
August 22nd, 2011 at 4:48 am
Wow, really, a guy? Nice to hear that from a guy, but is it really hard to figure out things to do? Just because people have sex it doesn't mean that they don't do other things. What do you think other people do before they go home and do the deed? Go out to eat, watch a movie, go to a concert, go to the park…
August 24th, 2011 at 2:49 pm
Movies
Theater
Bowling
Skating
Miniature Golf
Bingo (don't laugh, sometimes it is real funny)
Museums
Fishing
Swimming
Sailing
Build a model ship together
Build a miniature scene from years past of some historic event
Fly model planes
Fly kites
Picnics
August 26th, 2011 at 1:00 am
Idealistically speaking sex shold be part of process relationship and intimacy building…early on in dating i wouldnt put alot of pressure into getting into sex…
if you get sexually involved too quickly the emotional intimacy may not catch up quick enough when conflict developes(dont mean fighting conflict..i mean differences you each have that you bring to the table.. ..often which comes with the different stages relationships go through …then this leads to "where things go…either more committment or not.
Go out enjoy each others hobby s interest …try diferent foods,,,music…arts…movies…theatre..sports..outdoors activitieis…endless choices
August 28th, 2011 at 11:18 am
any thing except sex
August 31st, 2011 at 12:24 pm
They can do almost anything they want……..but……….what's the point?
September 1st, 2011 at 5:53 pm
You must be Christian. Its ok. You don't have to worry about being labeled. You don't see people putting stickers on apples with the word "apple" written on the stickers.
My suggestion is bring some blankets to a nearby park and lay down at night together. Just stare at the stars and talk about life and where you see yourselves in the future. And if she tries to bust sneaky one on you, just grab your blanket and run home.
You dont want to have sex before marriage. You assume that people that do have sex before marriage are labeled as fags. A typical Christian.