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AFTER HOW MANY DATES SHOULD WE HAVE SEX?
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Camron T asked:
We're teenagers, i do not a total harangue on underage sex, she's on the pill, i have condoms. When do you think we should? We've well known each alternative and favourite each alternative for about 6 months, proposed dating a month ago, we see each alternative each weekend. She's fine with it, but when should i go for it? valentines day?
first off, i dont wish you freaks which contend no sex prior to marriage. go away. please.
secondly, i love this girl, and she says she loves me (more) hehe.
and thirdly, i can suppose spending the rest of my hold up with her.
We're teenagers, i do not a total harangue on underage sex, she's on the pill, i have condoms. When do you think we should? We've well known each alternative and favourite each alternative for about 6 months, proposed dating a month ago, we see each alternative each weekend. She's fine with it, but when should i go for it? valentines day?
first off, i dont wish you freaks which contend no sex prior to marriage. go away. please.
secondly, i love this girl, and she says she loves me (more) hehe.
and thirdly, i can suppose spending the rest of my hold up with her.
26 Comments
May 22nd, 2011 at 6:25 am
another 6 months at least
May 22nd, 2011 at 3:46 pm
Valentines day sounds very romantic. You should make a very nice romantic setting and just be sure she wants too.
May 23rd, 2011 at 5:46 pm
Yes, try valentines day. It seems like you really care for her, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this.
Make it special and use protection.
May 24th, 2011 at 6:11 am
when ever your both ready i guess?
May 27th, 2011 at 5:43 am
Pull out all the stops on valentines day, make it romantic etc.
But only if you love her mate…
May 28th, 2011 at 2:00 pm
ok you know eachother for 6 months but you JUST started to date about a month i say wait awhile see how the relationship is going take it slow. rushing is bad and makes the relationship worse. make sure you love this girl
May 31st, 2011 at 1:34 am
ITs really up to you and your partner and how comfortable you are with each other.You definitely don't want to rush into it because once you start there's no turning back.
June 2nd, 2011 at 8:42 am
Valentines day
June 3rd, 2011 at 3:01 pm
Yeah Go For It Mate.
If you both ok with it.
oh and, good luck shifting the lectures on waiting till you married and BLAH BLAH BLAHHHHH
go for it
June 5th, 2011 at 3:52 am
honestly it sounds cliche & lets just say (no offence) things dont ork out for you guys, Valentines day will always have this event associated with it. It will hapen when it feels natural…if your planning it for a specific day, it will probably feel forced and awkward b/c its been built up so much by then
June 6th, 2011 at 8:35 pm
no not valentines day cuz if you end up breaking up thats gonna ruin her v-day forever =[ just do it whenever you are BOTH comfortable. get a motel, light some candals and boom boom in the room =]
June 6th, 2011 at 11:36 pm
after your married!!!!!!!!!!! dude if you want sex then you don't care for her, eww
June 9th, 2011 at 10:13 pm
You should have sex the date after you leave the altar. Put a ring on it.
June 11th, 2011 at 9:31 pm
when you are both ready
June 12th, 2011 at 3:54 am
i'd wait a few more months at least
June 12th, 2011 at 5:36 am
OMG, WAIT UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED
June 13th, 2011 at 6:37 pm
at least 6 months
June 14th, 2011 at 1:03 pm
IT would make a great Valentine's day present if it works out well.
June 17th, 2011 at 3:46 pm
i dnno asking girls for sex is pretty risky business ud better make damn sure she wants it before u say anything.
June 21st, 2011 at 12:22 am
i say DO IT NOW!!
June 23rd, 2011 at 9:36 pm
aaaw valentines day would be so romantic (: the fact that you're taking her feelings into consideration and planning it all out is very sweet (:
June 25th, 2011 at 9:47 pm
only do it if you can see yourself with her a year from now. there is no point effing her if you aren't going to make it last.
June 28th, 2011 at 4:31 am
Well i used the whole dont put out will 3rd date rule.
After sharing a bed wth this boy for a few night.
But valentines would be nice and romantic
June 30th, 2011 at 12:10 am
i'd wait a little longer.
if you're not totally sure, then just dont. you'll know when you're ready.
and Valentines day is probably not a good idea. kind of cliched.
July 1st, 2011 at 11:10 pm
depends one if it feels right with the two of you. Not valentines day, it already has a been enough hype for the day. it could ruin the day for both of you.
July 3rd, 2011 at 12:17 am
as long as you love each other why wait? Also as long as she is taking the pill why use a condom? She is taking the pill and can not get pregnant. Wearing a condom is like taking a shower while wearing a rain coat. You should talk with her and ask about her favorite positions and/or things she would like to try. Variety is the spice of life so experiment, experiment, experiment in any way or with anything you and she wish. You never know what you might like until you try it.