Dec
23
SHOULD WE TRY TO SALVAGE THIS RELATIONSHIP?
ByBOO! asked:
My partner and I have been going out for 3 years. Everything's great (we love one an additional and all that) but this one problem…
My partner and I have been going out for 3 years. Everything's great (we love one an additional and all that) but this one problem…
I have multiform internet cyber-sex relations with alternative men. It's something I can't help. The anticipation of being an additional man's sex worker is so delectable to me which I do not know what to do about it. I do not wish to date an additional man, only fantasise flash about being one's sex slave. And cyber-sex allows me to do that.
I haven't told my partner about it, but she suspects something. She's regularly revelation me how I'm "online as well much." If I told her what I was online you do she'd substantially leave me.
Then my family would wish to know because we pennyless up and I'm fearful my tip would be out?
Should I introduce to her and wed her prior to she finds out?
7 Comments
December 27th, 2010 at 12:25 am
Be honest with her jerk!
December 28th, 2010 at 3:21 am
When you are in a long term monogamous relationship I believe that both parties involved are going to get a little "restless" at times. That is what fantasies and masturbation are for! You can full fill something sexual without actually cheating. It is fine to have these fantasies…you don't have to tell her about them as long as you aren't acting on them…but maybe if you tell her you could make her a part of it! Oh yeah and don't propose just to keep her, propose because you want to spend the rest of your life with her, and if she is a good mate she will understand or at least try to understand your fantasies!
December 30th, 2010 at 6:16 am
thats nasty. how long before you act it out offline. ever heard of aids. if you tell her you might as well consider urself single
December 30th, 2010 at 7:51 pm
OK… I think you should tell her. And don't marry her unless she knows the truth. It would be terrible for her to find out your fetish after you were married. You should also get help if you don't actually want to be w/ another man why would you fantasize about it that makes no sense. Just be honest.
January 2nd, 2011 at 11:12 am
I think the real question is, why do you fantasize about being another guy's sex slave? You have to start from the beginning. Maybe you should see a therapist; talking to a qualified person would surely help you solve your problem…
But for now you gotta stop doing this immediately [or leave her, but that would be stupid cause she's a REAL person and the two of you are in love...] before she gets badly hurt. You can't have a girlfriend *and* online relationships! It doesn't matter if you're having cybersex with men or women, either way it's gonna crush her if she finds out, it's just as bad as cheating…
Good luck with that, I hope everything works out for you
January 5th, 2011 at 4:25 am
WOW!!! YEAH YOU TELL HER THAT AND SHE WILL PROB LEAVE YOU AND GO AROUND TELLING EVERYONE YOUR A QUEER…LOOKS LIKE YOUR SCREWED. BUT YOU SHOULD PROB JUST BE HONEST WITH YOUR SELF AND EVERYBODY ELSE BY TELLING HER YOU DON'T FANTASIZE ABOUT HER , RATHER THEN A GIANT C0CK BEING SLAMMED IN YOUR A$$…..EWWW
January 7th, 2011 at 10:42 pm
so for 3 years you've been gettin' cyber-boned by other guys… and you like it… I say tell your gf that you engage in cyber fantasy… never make any contact… just fantasy… don't go into any details…. if she presses you on it, tell you aren't comfortable talking about it… then go see a shrink and find out why you are drawn to these fantasies… if the whole thing turns into a total meltdown, then you will be free to pursue your fantasies… do not propose marriage… will only complicate things… most of all you need to be honest with her and especially yourself… deep down, you may really wanna get boned for real…