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WHAT IF A MAN YOU'RE DATING CALLS YOU A "SEX SLAVE"?
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chasing rainbow asked:
Have mutual aggreement to have sex. Was which a matter of a enrich or disgrace/humiliation?
I cant suppose the guys(mostly) contend something else since the gals (mostly) contend something else. I suffer his company, he's good but cruel. He controls me, and he knows it!
What's BDSM?
I cant confirm for the most appropriate answer, contemptible all. I think, he may be meant me as a apparatus for pleasure, or may be as a "turn on" thing. He is only crony with benefit, anyway.
Have mutual aggreement to have sex. Was which a matter of a enrich or disgrace/humiliation?
I cant suppose the guys(mostly) contend something else since the gals (mostly) contend something else. I suffer his company, he's good but cruel. He controls me, and he knows it!
What's BDSM?
I cant confirm for the most appropriate answer, contemptible all. I think, he may be meant me as a apparatus for pleasure, or may be as a "turn on" thing. He is only crony with benefit, anyway.
30 Comments
December 2nd, 2010 at 1:42 pm
YES. He's not respecting you, and you should DUMP him.
December 3rd, 2010 at 4:57 am
Definitely NOT a complement
December 3rd, 2010 at 11:42 am
disgrace/humilitation…
u should ask him what his thoughts on lorena bobbit are…lol
December 3rd, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Maybe it is role playing and fun. Some women like to be submissive and/or dominated in bed. They like a man taking over and having their way with them. Those are the ones guys like not the ones who worry about ego.
At the same time being submissive to the one you love is one thing but being submissive to a guy you don't know very well is another.
Two suggestions -
Be open with him and tell him how you feel. If he is a good lover he will want to know.
Maybe you should know the people your are having sex with better so you don't have to ask strangers.
December 4th, 2010 at 9:58 pm
Just an adventerous spirit.Tell him you will tie him up and whip him till he cries.
December 6th, 2010 at 10:03 pm
You hit the lotto. You found a winner… er well - not so much.
December 8th, 2010 at 8:44 pm
u girls take things too seriously, lighten up
December 10th, 2010 at 1:17 pm
if he is serious then you should get rid of him. if it is only play then have fun
December 13th, 2010 at 2:34 pm
A bit of a turn on I think
December 13th, 2010 at 8:09 pm
Get rid of the disrespectful little brat!!!
December 13th, 2010 at 9:45 pm
It's demeaning and disrespectful; you shouldn't subject yourself to someone so un-mannered as him.
help with my question please:
December 13th, 2010 at 11:34 pm
Dump him. He shows you no respect.
December 17th, 2010 at 10:01 am
if u dont like it he is a deushe andu need to dump him
December 20th, 2010 at 2:37 pm
Disgrace he's dissin on you girl boot his ass to the curb!!!!!!!!!!!
December 23rd, 2010 at 12:12 am
well you can't tell if he is teasing you or not, instead of jumping to conclusions like ^ them, ask him about it first to be positive
December 23rd, 2010 at 7:57 pm
A sex maniac with lust for humiliation.. Sry =/
December 23rd, 2010 at 9:29 pm
I think its a form of humiliation, its certainly not a compliment
December 24th, 2010 at 10:54 am
Well, are you his sex slave? Do you give him sex when he wants it and accept punishment for not doing so? This comment is NEVER a compliment. It may be true, or it is an insult, but never a compliment.
LUCK!
P.S.: All of you giving me the thumbs down-please explain how this comment can be considered a compliment? Educate me on how someone you are dating who refers to you as a sex slave is complimenting you. This guy does not say girl friend, friend, best friend, friend with benifits, or lover, all of which are equally true but not degrading. So please, lay upon me your wisdom and what makes the label "sex slave" a compliment.
Thanks!
December 25th, 2010 at 7:53 am
Some people are in to role playing. It could be that that is one of his fantasies. You have to be in to it too. If you're not…just tell him. If he has a problem with it, then it's adios.
December 26th, 2010 at 2:04 am
If someone calls you a sex slave you are not actually dating you have been kidnapped and repeatedly raped, use your computer to send for help.
December 28th, 2010 at 4:15 am
it depends on how you feel about it. he might only be joking. sometimes guys say things that were ok in other relationships and bring it to the next. if it bothers you, tell him. most couples i know of don't carry around a magic 8 ball
December 29th, 2010 at 3:01 am
i think he was just playing. tell him you didn't like it and ask him not to do it again. if he does then he really is a jerk and dump him.
December 30th, 2010 at 2:10 am
it's a term of enderment, , at least to a guy, , just like snuggle bunny is to a girl ,, see woman in general over think what guys mean, ,, we are not that complex, ,,women think it can't be that simple, theres got to be more to them then that,, but theres not, , just very simple thoughts , all around sex,
January 1st, 2011 at 1:25 am
I guess that all depends on you, and where he said it. If someone called me a sex slave in front of my friends, they better be joking. If it's in the boudoir, better be smexy.
January 2nd, 2011 at 9:54 pm
look here is the deal plain and simple give him all the sex he wants he will then want to marry you then once you marry him try to change him and make his life miserable that can be the payback for his comment. But then he will say your his little baby making machine. well what you gonna do its true all a girl friend is is a sex slave and all a wife is is a high priced prostitute.
January 5th, 2011 at 5:51 pm
Well, I'd wait until he took off your handcuffs then I'd slap him…LOL I don't think it was a statement of disgrace…. maybe wishfull think on his part….. Most men I think wouldn't mind having them a sex slave, whom they could do all those wild and crazy things with……. If anything, you may consider it a compliment…cause he wouldn't want a sex slave that he didn't enjoy being with, turned on by or care about……
January 6th, 2011 at 10:24 pm
Hes so HUMILIATING YOU!!!
you should just stuff him upside-down in a dustbin………..
mr helpful.
January 8th, 2011 at 7:09 am
Both, for although he enjoys the idea of having a sex slave, you are the sex slave, willing to do anything he carnally craves of you
January 9th, 2011 at 11:52 am
If it's in the context of a BDSM relationship, it's both a compliment and disgrace/humiliation.
January 12th, 2011 at 2:10 am
Do you really want to be like that. I didnt know what it meant until I went researching he just wants you for his pleasure you mean nothing to him and it was a disgrace I would get out while you can.
These people like to tie people up and do cruel things to them even sex acts I dont think you should be treated like an animal and that is how you will be treated if you know he is treated bad why go through it. Believe in yourself and find someone who will love you not use you