i'd say ask yourself first how much you care about yourself, because virginity is a huge part of yourself that you don't share with anyone. if you choose to, let it be someone that you love and trust to every degree that you would spend your life with them. i can't say wait till marriage because i didn't, but it was true love and we were very close to engaged. i don't regret it. but if you share that intimacy with someone you don't truly love with all your heart, you will regret it, and you will be hurt when he leaves. so think long and hard before you make such a big decision.

matthewczarnek
April 18th, 2010 at 5:01 pm

You should definitely wait for a while. Personally I'd say wait till marriage but at least about 5 dates. I'm still a virgin but I know that if I have a crush on a girl and go on a few dates it seems to me it will strengthen and definitely not end up being a one night stand.

Victoria
April 18th, 2010 at 9:09 pm

what does sex have to do with dating?
at least in the begining it should have NOTHING to do with it! NADA

in marriage and long term………………ok yes

but it shouldnt be that BIG of a deal

i mean come on now!

xxxgarfieldrulesxxx
April 18th, 2010 at 9:12 pm

You must be truly in love and have equal strong and intense feeling of passionate love for each other, then get married, and then when to have sex is…anytime!

Kolby V
April 21st, 2010 at 4:41 am

Maybe perhaps after you say "I do"

yaoixgirl
April 24th, 2010 at 3:51 am

have it when you 100% ready.

make sure to use protection

RocksYourLife
April 26th, 2010 at 7:50 pm

after the wedding