Jul
19
IS SELF LOVE A PERVERTED ACT?
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lord100jack asked:
Since separating from my wife, I am anticipating myself reverting to a robe I had when I was single. I was lifted Catholic and I hold the Catholic Church believes which masturbation is a sin, an action of perversion. I can recollect when I was flourishing up which a little guys suspicion maturbation was a happy act. I am perplexing to date again but there is no womanlike sex partner in my hold up at present. I am examination adult movies and well, you know(spare you the details). Afterward, I feel guilty about what I have done, abashed and all that. Then if anything goes wrong in my life, I think which God is punishing me for you do this. What do you guys (and gals) think?
Since separating from my wife, I am anticipating myself reverting to a robe I had when I was single. I was lifted Catholic and I hold the Catholic Church believes which masturbation is a sin, an action of perversion. I can recollect when I was flourishing up which a little guys suspicion maturbation was a happy act. I am perplexing to date again but there is no womanlike sex partner in my hold up at present. I am examination adult movies and well, you know(spare you the details). Afterward, I feel guilty about what I have done, abashed and all that. Then if anything goes wrong in my life, I think which God is punishing me for you do this. What do you guys (and gals) think?
5 Comments
July 23rd, 2009 at 1:11 am
its not bad. your just horny and need some pussy.
just lay back and enjoy the porn ;]
July 25th, 2009 at 10:21 am
I don't think a God worth worshipping would be angry over masturbation. As long as you're not obsessed, I think masturbation is normal and healthy.
July 26th, 2009 at 7:57 pm
self-love is a perfectly natural part of life. there is nothing wrong with it. if you choose to go with your desires rather than your beliefs, then so be it. do what feels right to you.
July 27th, 2009 at 2:16 am
I am sorry for using a pun, but you are going to have to come to grips with your situation and choose one or the other.
The Catholic Church does indeed consider onanism a sin.
You, unfortunately, are a normal, healthy, human male with a sex drive.
You will have to either stop polishing your horn, or realize that the Catholic Church is not for you and either turn agnostic or become a non-practicing anything.
I wish you much luck.
July 28th, 2009 at 4:26 am
I think religion has caused more screwed up and mentally confused and emotionally/mentally tortured people over time than all the clinical mental illnesses combined.
No, masturbation isn't perverted…it's normal, natural, and the only truly safe-sex there is. Toddlers have been known to masturbate, they simply don't know what they are doing (just that it feels good).
There's no reason for someone in or out of a relationship to feel bad about masturbating. You should be the one person you can always have sex with…no matter where you are in life.
I masturbate any time I desire…did it a little while ago. Who cares? It's my body and I'll damn sure touch it where I want, when I want (situation appropriate of course). When my lover isn't around, the next best thing is to fantasize about him, while pleasuring myself. Nothing wrong with that at all. ☺♥☻