Pamela O 2 asked:


ok… to total up - I found a couple of txts on my bf's phone the alternative week from a lady organising for them to encounter up… she seemed to be flirting, but his sent box was dull so couldnt see what he'd pronounced to her. Anyway he pronounced which she was an old crony and they'd only been assembly up for coffee - but it never went forward in the end, and he hadnt referred to it to me in box I got sceptical or peculiar (which I can do!).And there was additionally one there observant "fancy picking me up? lol" which had been sent the night prior to - right divided I do know he didnt reply to which as new texts were in his outbox, he pronounced this was from an ex, but I find it uncanny he'd have his ex's name saved as Caroline - Sweden… but again couldnt infer differently so let it go. Anyway given afterwards Ive been wondering was it which innocent, or had he been personification divided so I and YES I know unequivocally poorly checked his email account. (had his cue from ages ago). Here I found no justification of him analogous with girls in a intrigue mannerls, but I found notifications from unequivocally dirty adult sex/dating sites - I went and looked at his form on these… where he was promotion he longed for one on one sex incidents etc etc… There hasnt been any wake up on these sites for ages, so I hold he stopped regulating them when he met me…. but right divided Im worried… what if he knows these girls from these sites….I cant contend it to him as I know I shouldnt have review his emails so what should I do? Whilst Im unequivocally tender he hasnt been regulating them, I am kinda endangered this is how he knows these girls…. help!
I did plead him intrigue on me when Id seen these texts and he denied it blatantly observant he never would. He does flattering most outlay all his gangling time with me, and regularly texts when hes out but me so I know anticipating time to encounter up with alternative girls would be hard….
its weird…. I do certitude him…. Ive never had any reason to think differently before… the only these mails have kinda repulsed me some-more than anything… palm on heart, I dont think he'd lie on me.. Im only kinda confused right divided yet - i hadnt suspicion he'd be the sort to make use of these sites..